ABOUT
ME

Q: “What do you know now you wish you had known when you first started?”

BB: “That it REALLY IS going to all work out. That I really am a born leader… and just because that is true, it doesn’t mean I have to figure it all out alone. Staying in this work is going to open me up in ways I couldn’t even imagine were possible.”

Q: “What are some of the biggest changes you’ve seen in long-term clients of yours?”

BB: “I can share at least one really touching story of an early client. When she first came to me, she asked for my help as the LAST STOP, really trying to avoid taking anti-depressant medication. She described herself as very depressed and isolated. She was completely agoraphobic, terrified of driving anywhere new by herself and a smoker for 40 years.

“Within the first year of our working together she gave up cigarettes and is now completely tobacco and nicotine free for over a year and a half. She has just recently left a job that she had felt was crushing her spirit, and in which she felt highly undervalued.

“Within the past two months she has started her own dog training business in which she drives all over the entire state of Rhode Island to meet with her clients and train their dogs. Just this week she reported to me that within one day recently, she had 4 client appointments. She made almost as much that day as she would have in one week at her previous job.

“Also this once-agoraphobic woman has just volunteered to be one of the coordinators for the Women’s Ministry group in her spiritual community. And she has achieved all of this without once going onto any anti-depressant medication, as she earnestly wished. When I listen to her now, she is so full of life! I am so proud of her.”

Q: “Is there any parting wisdom you’d like to share?”

BB: “There’s one word in the English language that has cost people dearly. Millions of dollars and moments in time. You’ve paid your share — I’ve paid mine. No one has escaped. And that loss and temporal debt grow everyday.

“The peculiar part of the whole thing is that this word can make a change if correctly applied… just as easily as it costs opportunity if used in the wrong way.

“But most people use it at the wrong time in the wrong way. That’s why it’s so costly.

“It isn’t a long word — in fact, it’s only two letters.

“The word is — “IF”.

“If I had done this”… “If I had taken advantage of that.” Every day you hear it used — expressive of the abandoned action that has cost someone money, opportunity or progress.

“That’s the common way it’s used; the wrong and costly way.

“But — when “IF” is weaponized as a forecast of proper action instead of a synonym for regret, the magic there is astonishing.

“My work is in transforming the negative “if” within (LIFE) so all that remains is (L)imitless (E)mpowerment. So I am grateful for this platform to share my story and wish all your readers the unparalleled joy of loving your life with every fiber of your being.”